~first~ is drawn to ~second~ in part because ~second~ has great inner strength and the kind of personal power that could lead to worldly success. Capable and goal-oriented, ~second~ is a force to be reckoned with.

~second~ is attracted to ~first~ largely because they recognize in ~first~ an emotional and inner/spiritual wealth that has likely remained dormant in their own life, at least to some extent. ~first~ experiences life on many levels, they know the heart and understand the power of emotions. When brought together, the innate qualities of the 2 (~first~) and the 8 (~second~) can produce a rewarding, balanced relationship.

This is a combination with the potential to survive long-term, however, there is also the possibility of miscalculating your strength as a couple. The relationship between the 2 and 8 is sometimes based on the "illusion" or assumption that the partner will never change. ~first~ admires ~second~'s strength and believes it will always be there. ~second~ is attracted to ~first~'s romantic, emotional nature and expects it to be unwavering. But there will be times when strength will falter, and the heart will seem to lose interest. However, remaining alert and responsive to each other, and not allowing issues to fester can overcome these challenges. 

Every couple must accept the changing nature of relationships, that they ebb and flow over time. The key for success in yours is to recognize each other as whole, complex individuals, seeing beyond your first impression and your partner's most distinctive characteristics. ~first~ must respect and accept ~second~'s strengths and abilities, as well as their weaknesses. ~second~ needs to realize ~first~ is more than the gentle, romantic, accommodating partner they first fell in love with. 

Few combinations tend to give birth to relationships based on misperception as often as the 2 and the 8. But remember, this is just one aspect of your chart. You both have many other qualities to bring to your relationship. Combine your respective strengths and you should have a rewarding, long-lasting relationship. 