~first~ and ~second~, your cycles are as opposite as they can be, yet they are compatible. In a relationship, their influences usually complement and balance each other.

~second~ is in a dynamic cycle of change and highly charged, restless energy. Your cycle is one of stability and responsibility, which should make your approach focused and practical. While ~second~ is looking for opportunity and adventure, you will be centered on your home and family - the people and things that mean the most to you. ~second~'s attention will be focused on work, projects, travel, or other outside interests.

If you can recognize the differing aspects of your cycles and support each other's independent paths, this can be a rewarding period for your individual pursuits as well as your relationship. ~second~ can inspire a little excitement and you can bring needed stability. 

However, there is also the potential for discord, blame, or anger. During this cycle, more than almost any other time, it is important that you do not try to influence each other too much. "Live and let live" should be the slogan for this period. 

You have probably already recognized that you always experience vastly different cycles, some more compatible than others. This is an important aspect of your relationship, and not limited to this cycle. To maintain a successful partnership, you will both need to accept the fact that you will be influenced by hugely different energies for most of your lives. It would not hurt to make "live and let live" a family motto for life.

Although your cycles place you at opposite ends of the spectrum, you complement each other nicely when things are harmonious, with each of you providing aspects that work well together. Chances are you make a great team when you put your minds to it, especially when it comes to presenting a united front to the outside world.