~first~ and ~second~, this part of the chart reveals two numbers at opposite ends of the spectrum. The 8 and 9 have almost nothing in common and are not considered compatible, yet they are often strongly attracted to each other. Interestingly, this attraction can remain compelling and fresh for many years because there is always something new to discover in each other. 

A go-getter with big dreams and expectations, ~second~ (the 8) has a good chance to turn many of those dreams into reality because they are highly motivated and willing to put forth enormous effort to reach a goal. It is the nature of the 8 to direct energy toward accumulating wealth and power, so for ~second~, this is natural and healthy. 

~first~ is equally focused but driven by completely different priorities and motives. The 9 in their chart is motivated by the work itself and the way it affects the lives of others, rather than financial gain or material success. The 9 will rarely find happiness or achieve success if motivated by worldly desires; ~first~ finds personal reward when driven by humanitarian motives. 

Obviously, your priorities are as different as night and day, yet both are as they should be. You will often find yourselves at opposite sides of a discussion and will rarely agree when it comes to practical matters. For a happy relationship, you will both need to recognize and respect your differences. If you take each other for granted or begin to feel you can predict and control your partner, your relationship will be in trouble. The keyword in this relationship is respect. If you respect each other, disagreements - of which there will probably be many - will not weaken your foundation.