~first~ and ~second~, this is considered a difficult combination of cycles because your priorities are not aligned. For ~second~, the relationship and matters of the heart take precedence and heighten sensitivity and emotions. This could leave them more vulnerable to criticism or perceived neglect during this period.

For you, ~first~, focusing on the relationship will probably take second or third place for a while. Your attention will be on career, finances, friends, and family. You want to improve everything that surrounds and sustains the relationship, but in the process,  you may not pay as much attention to your partner. Also, you might feel ~second~ isn't carrying enough emotional weight when, in fact, their focus is simply directed elsewhere. 

This cycle combination offers many openings for misunderstanding and disagreement. It is likely that you will experience a few rough spots, but it should also bring positive aspects. You have the potential to make improvements in areas outside of the relationship (which will ultimately support it), and ~second~ can help the two of you stay connected and deepen your bond.