~first~ and ~second~, as is often the case in your relationship, this cycle influences you in different (and not altogether compatible) ways. 

For you ~first~, it is a time to get out and shake some trees, make things happen, and reap the rewards. To make the most of this cycle it will be important for you to stay focused and determined while pursuing your goals.

For ~second~, the cycle could feel a little shaky, so they will need your commitment and support during this period. With your focus on interests outside the relationship, and ~second~ needing your attention more than usual, it will probably take effort from both of you to prevent disappointment or resentment from creeping in.

~first~, although this will be an enterprising time for you, make time for ~second~ as well. You, too, will experience a period when nothing seems secure and solid. In fact, your next cycle will probably bring a bit of that, so you may be looking to them for support. 

Help ~second~ recognize you do not mean to pull away from them, your cycle just delivers a more ambitious spirit. ~second~ is at the end of a cycle and should focus on completing projects and letting go of things that no longer serve a purpose. (Their next cycle should be much more energetic.) 

Because your cycles tend to be almost opposite, you have probably learned to adjust to each other's needs. This ability is the key to sustaining a long and happy union.