~first~ and ~second~, yours is a challenging combination. ~first~ likes routine and predictability, while ~second~ prefers change and the unexpected. The numbers 4 and 5 are opposites in many ways. Interestingly, this is often the root of the initial attraction. ~first~ (the 4) is drawn to ~second~'s daring, adventurous, dynamic, and energetic life. ~second~ admires the control and discipline ~first~ displays.

This combination often creates a dynamic relationship - comparable to a roller coaster ride. Due to these extreme differences, your relationship will require mutual love and acceptance that is strong enough to weather your differing likes and dislikes, including your lifestyle preferences. Trying to change your partner is futile - your needs and desires are simply too different. ~first~ must accept the fact that ~second~ is not predictable and will never be happy living a highly structured life. ~second~ needs to make peace with ~first~'s need for an organized and controlled environment.

Differences will be noticed in other areas as well. ~second~ is sensual and feels comfortable around others. They are social and have an adventurous side (even a wild streak). ~first~ can be social but prefers to keep a certain amount of distance. When choosing company, they are probably more discriminating and tends to hold on to protocol longer. Although as a rule ~first~ is more conventional and careful, they can reveal an extroverted, even outrageous side given the right occasion.

When it comes to opinions, often you may find yourselves on opposing sides. ~first~ needs a somewhat structured connection to life, even its spiritual side. ~second~'s inner world is more imaginative and changeable. ~first~ may be willing to accept rules and regulations that ~second~ enjoys breaking. These examples should not be taken too literally; you are complex individuals with additional influences in other areas of your chart that could modify these aspects. Suffice it to say you will encounter differences in your personalities and your approaches to many issues. 

Interestingly, this combination can be powerful, exciting, and long lasting. The key to success will be in not taking yourself or your concepts too seriously - something ~first~ may need to work on. Maintain a sense of humor and keep in mind that opinions are just that, with relative values. Focus on enjoying each other's company; combine your strengths and build on your differences. 

Your polarity has the potential to create a dynamic, rewarding relationship. With tolerance and openness, you can build a healthy relationship where ~second~'s dynamic, adventurous spirit and ~first~'s discipline and methodical approach happily live side-by-side.