HOW HIS NAME NUMBERS STACK UP

When the serious, studious 7 hooks up with the happy-go-lucky 3, maintaining focus and direction can become a challenge. It will be easy to detour from his path when something attracts his attention. Since 7 is his Heart's Desire, he has an innate yearning to learn and acquire knowledge and insight. On the surface, and in the eyes of those who do not know him well, he may appear to be lacking direction and even seem somewhat superficial.

He can bring true fulfillment to his life, a potential that is particularly strong in the 3 and 7 combination. Although it generally occurs later in life, attaining this level of contentment places him in a very small and enviable group.

As a young person, maturity may be slow in coming - a side effect of the inquisitive, high-spirited 3 - but there is no harm in taking his time, especially since his inquisitive, curious Heart's Desire assures there is no lack of depth to his personality. There is so much going on in his imagination, intellect, and his attempts to understand the spiritual/intangible side of life, that a few detours are easily forgiven. He should take his time growing up.

He is flexible when it comes to his career as well and will want to explore different avenues. His 1 Expression, backed by a 3 Personality, produces a creative, unconventional, and headstrong individual. Many entrepreneurs are born with a 1 Expression, but if the 7 Heart's Desire has anything to say, financial success will never be his main motivation. Everything is subject to his desire to do something unique, and with ethical and/or spiritual values.

He may find himself a bit of an outsider in his personal life, even in his own family and community (the 7 Heart's Desire often makes for the proverbial lone wolf). This can be difficult while growing up when peer-pressure could make him feel vulnerable. As he matures, he begins to realize that fitting in is overrated, and his happiness is not threatened by a lack of understanding or acceptance from those around him. He takes the road less travelled because that is where he belongs.

He will prefer to collaborate with a person who is also a little different or eccentric, someone who stands out in some way.

Let us look at each of the core numbers for more insight. 

HE HAS A 1 EXPRESSION

A man with a 1 Expression is a natural leader, independent,  individualistic, ambitious, original, and courageous. He employs new and unproven methods. He is an explorer and an innovator. Openness to too many peripheral influences limits and frustrates him. He is self-reliant, confident, energetic, and springs into action when leadership is needed. He possesses executive abilities and is most successful at owning or independently managing a business. He needs the freedom to make his decisions, based on his ideas. He easily assumes the role of protector. He can be an astute politician. He also possesses the ability to influence the opinions of others.

The number 1 symbolizes the front-runner, pioneer, warrior, risk-taker, and daredevil. Generals, top politicians, successful businesspeople, self-made millionaires, religious leaders, inventors, activists, and avant-garde artists are often born with a 1 Expression.

Strength and perseverance are central to his success. He must be willing to travel the frontiers of life, away from the beaten path. He possesses a great reserve of willpower that must be directed at his goals. He does not give up, but relentlessly pursues his aims.

He is quite opinionated. People tend to be inspired or repelled by his strong personality. He has great powers of concentration and the ability to visualize his goals, thus making them more attainable. He stands up for his convictions and holds his ground. All these abilities enhance his chances of success in life.

There is a tendency to be self-centered. He can be domineering and, in the extreme, a bully. He can be highly critical of others, complaining that people lack the industry or determination ha possesses. But this lack of understanding can alienate friends and family members. He must learn to control this tendency to maintain harmony in relationships. Once he is convinced of the inherent correctness of his ideas, he stubbornly -- and sometimes rigidly -- defends and propagates them. He must learn to avoid obstinacy and antagonism, and cultivate balance, compassion, and perseverance.

Pride can be his downfall. He so powerfully identifies with his goals and ambitions; he sometimes refuses to see a potential flaw or weakness in his well-laid plans.

He possesses strength and determination, which, when applied to any endeavor he is committed to, will lead him to great success in life.

HIS HEART'S DESIRE IS 7

He loves knowledge, study, and insight. He values the gifts of his mind, which he uses to great advantage to penetrate the mysteries of life. He studies things in-depth. He searches beneath the surface of things. He abhors shallow judgments or opinions.

He has a natural gift for analysis and research. Once he has grasped the facts of a subject, his creativity and abstract approach lifts his thinking beyond the rudimentary to the philosophical. He has a theoretical mind, but rather than indulge in fantasies or idle thought, he prefers to base his theories upon scientific facts. He enjoys mental and physical puzzles -- figuring them out, taking them apart, and putting them back together.

Some people may perceive him as cool or aloof. He is somewhat introverted; he may feel slightly removed and even a little different. The fantasy of the hermit or monk engaged in a life of study and meditation appeals to him.

In relationships, he tends to keep things business-like and impersonal. He prefers to talk about the facts of a given situation, rather than the cloudier issues of emotions and personal feelings. He distrusts feelings -- both his own and those of others. The whole emotional realm strikes him as unreliable and a bit unnecessary. His inability to fully understand the emotional aspect of life is his Achilles heel. He is so rational that the unpredictability of the heart frightens and surprises him. His challenge is to trust. He needs to share his heart with someone. This is a courageous step for him but will result in enormous growth and satisfaction.

The advice here is to make a true connection with another human being. Without it, he may marry out of convenience or to fulfill social expectations, but it will not lead him out of loneliness. The more removed he is from people, the more he risks isolation, bitterness, and a cynical attitude toward life. 

This choice represents a true crossroads in his development. By sharing himself with others (without compromising his independence and need for privacy) he can cultivate his enormous charm and share his understanding of life. He is a natural teacher and advisor. And the wealth of knowledge he will accumulate in life is meant to be shared with others.

This is not to say that he must compromise on his need for privacy or time spent alone to contemplate life. These are natural aspects of his personality, which are essential to his growth. These characteristics should not be threatening to his spouse but must be understood as fundamental to his being.

He is blessed with a great reserve of intuition, which can be cultivated by regular meditation and contemplation. His "inner voice" is his greatest guide and friend. He is idealistic and has high expectations for himself. He must learn to balance his serious nature with regular doses of fun. His intelligence and cultivation make him charming and distinguished in appearance. As he gets older and more comfortable with his identity, people are naturally attracted to him. They see his wisdom, his deep understanding of life, and the refinement he radiates.

HIS PERSONALITY IS A 3

He is highly attractive. Many men with a 3 Personality are usually handsome: women often strikingly beautiful. His vibration is full of life. He is uplifting, inspiring, and charming. He is a fun person to be around. His wit and sparkling personality make him the life of a party. He is extroverted and optimistic. He appreciates fine clothing and jewelry and enjoys dressing up a bit. He likes glamour and is sought after by the other sex. He is a romantic. He falls in and out of love rather quickly. He is affectionate and giving.

He must learn not to let his charm become an incentive to play too much. He should work at developing deep and lasting relationships. He must avoid scattering his attention for popularity. He can be flippant about commitments and may dramatize or exaggerate. His wit can cause him to rely too much on superficial, humorous conversation.

He has a distinct "lucky streak" that attracts many opportunities throughout his life. He also has a knack of promoting himself as well as inspiring others. When backed up by hard work and self-discipline, these qualities almost always ensure his success.