~first~ and ~second~, you both have the creative, happy-go-lucky 3 in this part of the chart, which indicates you carry on lively conversations and inspire and motivate each other in an energetic environment. You joke easily and appreciate each other's humor. You enjoy one another's company while still participating in an active social life. 

On the surface, there is little negative to say about this combination. However, a deeper look suggests that unless you consistently work on it, the happy-go-lucky nature of your relationship could become the root of persistent problems. Sharing the 3, you probably both tend to gloss over rough spots that emerge. This area of the chart indicates a strong preference for reveling in the sunny days without noticing the shadows you cast. It is important that you address relationship issues as they arise before they accumulate and become insurmountable. 

The influence of the 3 is only dominant in some aspects of your relationship; other more serious numbers also play in your chart. They can help you work through the emotional turmoil that is inevitable. Watch for subtle signs indicating something might be bothering your partner because, although you are both excellent communicators, you do not always use this talent to express your deeper, private, feelings. Stay attentive. If you suspect something is up - even though your partner appears happy-go-lucky - take time to have a frank and intimate talk about what is going on.

Another potential issue for this combination is that fun can become too high a priority, overshadowing important responsibilities and duties. The number 3 is scattered, unfocused, and impulsive, all common traits in creative people and the creative process. The 3 lets the mind wander in search of new, creative ideas. However, without effort and discipline those traits can work against you. To create the material security that will allow you to experience the fun and joy you both desire, you may need to remind one another to stay focused and keep your eyes on the prize.

~first~ and ~second~, you clearly have many compatible aspects in your relationship. Just ensure you guard against the less desirable traits of the 3 (irresponsibility, lack of focus, and a sometimes-frivolous attitude). 