~first~ and ~second~, you both have a 4 in this part of the chart, indicating a relationship that is either very compatible or extremely stressful. Your lifestyle preferences are likely remarkably similar, and you both prefer a certain amount of predictability and routine in your lives. This does not mean you do not enjoy a surprise on occasion, but you generally want your daily routine to be firmly established and uninterrupted. 

The success of your relationship relies largely on how compatible your daily routines are. Details are important because you both tend to become irritated when your carefully established schedules are disturbed. It is important that you respect each other's needs and habits. Even if other numbers in your respective charts point to a certain amount of flexibility and adaptability, you probably tend to create environments that are finely tuned and designed to accommodate your daily physical, mental and spiritual needs.

Unless your habits are compatible, it will be difficult for you to sustain this relationship without making a few adjustments (other than the necessary give-and-take of any relationship). Neither of you should severely limit your needs or desires to accommodate the other as it will only work in the short term; try to arrange a somewhat separate routine instead. It is better to give each other room than to force things that are uncomfortable, creating minor annoyances that can turn into growing sources of resentment. 


~first~ and ~second~, you are both reliable, dependable people who honor your promises. Being able to count on each other is a powerful ally in your relationship. However, if taken too far, your grounded, practical nature can also create a rigid lifestyle that could lead to frustration and gradual alienation from friends and family members. Lacking tolerance and acceptance of other people's lifestyles can put a stranglehold on your social life and, indirectly, a strain on your relationship. Your keywords for a successful, rewarding relationship are tolerance and flexibility. 