HOW HER NAME NUMBERS STACK UP

The 1, 3, 4 combination is promising in many respects. Her ambitious, energetic 1 Personality is a good companion to the plodding, methodical, detail-oriented 4 Expression. Her creative 3 Heart's Desire adds originality and a sunny disposition. Many great artists have this combination in their core numbers. However, it has also been known to cause promising careers to sputter before getting off the ground.

The 3 Heart's Desire has charisma that can inspire and motivate others. She makes friends easily. The 3 is usually loyal and generous but has also been known to drop a relationship for relatively minor infractions. Those who know her well have probably experienced the two conflicting sides to her personality: her predictable, reliable, trustworthy 4 Expression, as well as her somewhat unpredictable and child-like 3 Heart's Desire. It is the optimistic, playful side that gives her a creative, original, and sometimes unconventional approach to things. However, she needs to be careful not to let that trait dominate, because it can also be irresponsible and blind her to the consequences of her own actions.

An example of the 3 Heart's Desire and 4 Expression conflict is that the 4 does not procrastinate while the 3 often does. Try to focus on the stable, detail-oriented traits of the 4 in her professional life and nurture the happy-go-lucky creative traits of the 3 in her personal life.

Fortunately, her 1 Personality can make the 1-3-4 triangle work, as it brings drive, ambition, individuality, and independence. The 1 works well with both the 3 and the 4. Think of them as three siblings, two of whom tend to get in each other's way, while the third is the glue that keeps them together.

In her personal life, chances are she draws people to her easily, including potential romantic partners. The 1 has a dynamic, individualistic persona. Unfortunately, she tends to wear two very different "masks" when she meets people in professional or social settings. Sometimes she displays the upbeat, witty, fun-loving 3. Other times she presents herself as the serious, anxious, and somewhat dull 4. One of these personality types will dominate. It would be fortunate if it were the 3. Save the serious side for her professional life, but show it only sparingly, even there.

Let us look at each of the core numbers for more insight. 

A CLOSER LOOK AT HER 4 EXPRESSION

A person with a 4 Expression is the bedrock of society, the foundation of any enterprise, an organizer and manager. Her approach to life and to problems is methodical and systematic. She is a builder and a doer who can turn dreams into reality. She possesses a highly developed sense of structure which helps her carry out her well-laid plans. She is not the type to embark on any trip without a map.

She is reliable and responsible and takes her obligations and those of her family quite seriously. She enjoys seeing a project through from start to finish but can become too narrowly focused. She puts her nose to the grindstone and tends to become a workaholic. She is driven by contempt for all that is unstable, insecure, and unpredictable. She distrusts the unconventional, preferring instead the tried-and-the-true. But this can make her endeavors move slowly and cause her much frustration, especially with the apparent limitations of her resources. At the same time, concern for the limitations of her resources causes her to be careful and cautious, shutting her out from possible shortcuts and creative solutions provided by more daring people around her. It is important that she recognizes restrictions for what they are: guiding forces that are testing and directing her toward her goals. Her challenge is to be more imaginative and to attract more creative people into her life who can advise and inspire her.

In relationships, she tends to be somewhat moralistic. She is extremely honest and sincere. She has integrity and is trustworthy but can also be rigid and stubborn. She should avoid letting her strong likes and dislikes overrule her common sense and compassion and be more understanding of others' shortcomings.

Because she tends to focus on details, she can fall into a rut and become a little dull and overly serious. Often, people born with the 4 Expression need to lighten up and have more fun. This is a person who has a keen eye for detail, great stamina, and can work conscientiously and persistently toward her goals. This eventually brings her success and standing in her community.

In her conservative and careful way, she is good with money and very conscious of the balance between income and expenditures. She can limit her expenditures; saving money is important to her.

She is a surprisingly good parent and loves to be involved with children. Somehow, she relates a little more than others to the innocence of children, perhaps seeing a good deal of herself in them. She, too, is idealistic and respects the simplicity of children.

Many accountants, bookkeepers, government officials, managers, and lawyers are born under the 4 Expression. She can be attracted to the arts and music but will likely bring her love of structure and order to any artistic field. Classical music and opera are particularly appealing and inspiring for her.

HER HEART'S DESIRE IS 3

She loves a good time. She is generally happy, friendly, and outgoing. She has a gift for gab. She is very witty, creative, and playful. She inspires and entertains people. She is considered by many a great companion. Many outstanding comedians have this Heart's Desire. She has a good mental and emotional balance and there is little that gets her down.

She has a gift for self-expression and is drawn to the verbal arts -- writing, acting, singing, and poetry. She may have a great talent in one of these areas. If her creativity is blocked or suppressed, she tends to daydream and fantasize. Her imagination needs a constructive outlet; otherwise, it may run away with her. 

At the same time, she may have great difficulty expressing her deeper feelings and important personal thoughts. She prefers to stay on the surface, entertaining people with her wit. If she fails to deal honestly with her inner nature, she may succumb to compulsive talking. Such behavior may be merely a way of siphoning off emotional energy that is building beneath her surface. Her deeply felt emotional life cannot be avoided or suppressed. But she possesses the talent to channel these feelings into highly creative and artistic form. Art and self-expression are her outlets.

She needs discipline to make full use of her abilities. Too often, she may scatter her energies in many directions, beginning projects that are never finished and never really succeeding in anything. Her success depends on her ability to commit to her work and to see it through to completion. She has so much creativity and inspiring upward energy that she is in desperate need of an anchor. Hard work and discipline serve this purpose and bring out the best in her.

Because she is gifted with such a sparkling personality, she is tempted to stay on the surface and play with life. She is confident and loves the attention others give her, but these characteristics can lead to vanity and self-absorption.

She has the potential to live a very full and successful life thanks to her talent for artistic self-expression. The key to her success is a balance between the creative forces and self-discipline.

HER PERSONALITY IS A 1

She radiates with a dynamic and efficient energy. She appears controlled and capable. She values courage and effort in the face of difficulties and these qualities show. Others can sense that she will not be pushed around.

She should dress in a dignified and correct manner, caring for the details of her appearance. While she may spend most of her time in staid business dress or suits, bright and cheerful colors work well for her. She is fashionable but has her own style. Her appearance suffers more than most people when she is overweight. Overweight directly contradicts the type of personality she is trying to project. Straight lines and square corners accent her good physique and enhance her appearance as a leader.

She is recognized as a pioneer; she has her own ideas of how to do things. She is a risk-taker, original and highly creative. She should be wary of appearing too aggressive or unreceptive. She can intimidate people if she does not soften her exterior somewhat. By doing this, she will attract less confident people who will be more willing to approach her with their thoughts and suggestions.