~first~ and ~second~, once every nine cycles your relationship may go through a challenging period, a time when only your love and commitment will see you through. 
 
Your current cycle is likely to bring disagreements and arguments that make you wonder what happened to the nice person you used to know. This is due to being at opposite ends of the spectrum. ~second~ has a 1 cycle delivering new beginnings, and you are at the tail end of your cycles, wrapping things up before beginning a new phase. Conflicts could be heightened by your emotional vulnerability during a period when ~second~ may be less sensitive than usual. 

There are few, if any, cycle combinations as challenging as this one, but with effort and recognition of your love for each other, your relationship can survive and grow even stronger. The most important piece of advice for ~second~ is to give you plenty of attention, even if they feel you are overly emotional. (Your 9 could bring mood swings.) 

The advice for you is not to take your emotions too seriously. You are likely to be going through changes that require surrender and acceptance, which could make you more emotional than usual (even melodramatic). You will also benefit from understanding ~second~ does not mean to be abrupt or insensitive, they are just in a more ambitious cycle than you are. 

Only your hearts can save the day. When emotions are high, it is often the heart, not the mind that is able to understand and weather the storm. 