~first~ and ~second~, you have a very promising combination although, interestingly, you have very little in common in this aspect of the chart. The core numbers show ~second~ to be strong, driven, competitive, motivated, and perhaps somewhat domineering. ~first~ is by nature more the "power behind the throne", a more patient type who keeps the bigger picture in mind. Sensitive, intuitive, insightful, and supportive, you will (usually) allow ~second~ to assume the more assertive role, while unobtrusively making sure the job gets done. The fact that you do not vie for power is key in this relationship. Both of you know your wants and needs and, in your own way, can express them to each other. Being comfortable in the roles you have chosen helps you to complement each other well. 

~first~ is the peacemaker, ~second~ the driving, ambitious force. However, it is important to look at other compatible aspects in your number combination to keep this in perspective. ~second~ needs to be careful with ~first~'s sensitive nature; their strength is like a strong stick - it will not break easily and is not concerned about getting damaged. ~first~'s strength is more flexible, but also more vulnerable; they will surrender more easily but is also more sensitive to harsh words and criticism. ~second~ can shrug off judgment from others without much damage to their ego. Interestingly, it is precisely because ~first~ can bend with the breeze that they will likely be the survivor if a serious storm hits, whereas, if the wind is strong enough, ~second~'s strength may snap.

In this aspect of the chart, the key to a healthy relationship is mutual respect and sincerity. ~second~ needs to understand that ~first~'s willingness to compromise or surrender does not indicate weakness or an indecisive nature. They should also be aware that ~first~ is not easily fooled. Although ~first~ may accept an explanation or situation without confrontation, it is due to their insight and perspective rather than cowardice; they recognize insincerity and dishonestly more quickly than ~second~ and should not be underestimated. And ~first~ should keep in mind that showing strength and bravado does not mean that ~second~ is not susceptible to hurt feelings. In fact, behind that facade of strength and courage is someone who experiences matters of the heart very deeply.