HOW HER NAME NUMBERS STACK UP

Her 8 Personality and 3 Heart's Desire would make her a difficult person to have a good relationship with, were it not for her 2 Expression. The problem lies in the vastly different traits of the 8 and 3 combination.

She is goal-oriented, with the drive, ambition, and leadership qualities characteristic of an 8 Personality. This is the side of her that is easily recognized by others, and it can be quite impressive. However, she is primarily motivated by the scattered, irresponsible, impulsive, creative, and childlike traits typical of a 3 Heart's Desire. Numerology views the 3 as a spoiled but highly gifted child. You cannot help but love and admire it, but she should nudge and funnel her energy toward a more mature, responsible, and realistic course.

The 3 is her Heart's Desire number - the driving force behind her choices and decisions. However, she will find it very difficult to manifest what she wants without allowing her goal-oriented 8 Personality to make something concrete out of her creative and original 3 energy. Although the 8 and the 3 combine traits that are not particularly compatible, they each contribute traits that can help her reach her goal. Her challenge will be aligning the differing aspects of these core numbers, and that is where her 2 Expression comes to the rescue.

On its own, the 8 is often abrasive and overbearing, while the 3 can be insensitive, superficial, and at times hurtful. The 2, on the other hand is sensitive and gentle, with a genuine concern for others. It has a highly developed barometer of human needs and emotions, making it the perfect tool to offset the somewhat coarse 8 and the more superficial 3.

These numbers offer a range of possibilities for her professional life. The most promising field is one that combines art or creativity with a practical and commercially viable enterprise. Her 8 Personality will be instrumental in turning her creative venture into a business, or, at the very least, something that will pay the bills. And the people-skills inherent in her 2 Expression will be a real ally. Or, if her 3 Heart's Desire gets the upper hand potential careers include: artist, gallery owner, copywriter, art or music critic, toy maker, animator, commercial artist, architect, or similar fields. If her 2 Expression has the final say, she may be drawn to a field that highlights her interpersonal skills, as an attorney, politician, psychologist, or educator, or in human resources. Her 8 Personality will provide the traits necessary to make whichever career she chooses financially viable.

Perhaps the most challenging aspect of this combination is the temptation she must influence, or even manipulate, others. Gossip and lies are the domain of the negative side of 2 and combined with the presence of the (occasionally) reckless 3, she may find it difficult to avoid those pitfalls under certain circumstances. To make matters even more challenging, the negative side of the 8 tends to abuse its natural authoritative, leadership qualities, showing her obnoxious, pompous side.

Let us look at each of the core numbers for more insight. 

A CLOSER LOOK AT HER 2 EXPRESSION

She has a great talent for working with others and possesses tact and refinement. She has a highly developed intuition. This provides her with insight into personalities and situations. Therefore, she acts with tact and subtle persuasion. She possesses a kind of radar, avoiding the landmines within another's personality, yet bringing out their goodwill. These abilities make her the perfect diplomat. She is a good counselor with an inborn talent for psychology and finely tuned intuition.

Her abilities are better expressed while working with others than by working alone. In the same way, she performs better in a partnership than in a leadership role. She seeks balance and peace in all relationships and situations. The key to her personality is sensitivity, but there are two sides to the coin: She can perceive the thoughts and emotions of others and can work gently with others for a mutually shared goal. This makes her a great asset in any group endeavor. 

However, her sensitivity makes her vulnerable. She can be thrown off balance by an unkind word, a conflict, or by hostile conditions at work. She is far more upset by these conditions than people without her sensitivity. While others appear to be enduring troubled times with a modicum of turmoil, she suffers the turbulence of life as if her very survival were at stake.

In difficulties, she tends to persevere and steadily erode the resistance. She is like a gentle wind that shapes the rock.

She is friendly and open-minded. She is a great support person, pulling the best out of those around her. She is the power behind the throne. She is indispensable to the leadership of another, providing insight and advice that is essential. Yet, despite the invaluable service she provides, she often does not get the credit and recognition she deserves, which can be frustrating. Her natural modesty and the enjoyment she gets from being an important asset is usually satisfaction enough for her.

Close relationships are essential to her happiness. When single, she dreams of finding her "soul mate." When married, she is concerned with her spouse's needs, emotions, and thoughts. She is an outstanding marriage partner, giving, thoughtful, and conscious of meeting the needs of her loved one. She provides great support for her spouse’s career. She is a passionate lover.

Parenthood is not an easy role for her, probably because she lacks the will to enforce discipline and needs a tranquil, delicate, and harmonious environment.

She is blessed with a high degree of musical talent. She has a good sense of rhythm and harmony.

HER HEART'S DESIRE IS 3

She loves a good time. She is generally happy, friendly, and outgoing. She has a gift for gab. She is very witty, creative, and playful. She inspires and entertains people. She is considered by many a great companion. Many outstanding comedians have this Heart's Desire. She has a good mental and emotional balance and there is little that gets her down.

She has a gift for self-expression and is drawn to the verbal arts -- writing, acting, singing, and poetry. She may have a great talent in one of these areas. If her creativity is blocked or suppressed, she tends to daydream and fantasize. Her imagination needs a constructive outlet; otherwise, it may run away with her. 

At the same time, she may have great difficulty expressing her deeper feelings and important personal thoughts. She prefers to stay on the surface, entertaining people with her wit. If she fails to deal honestly with her inner nature, she may succumb to compulsive talking. Such behavior may be merely a way of siphoning off emotional energy that is building beneath her surface. Her deeply felt emotional life cannot be avoided or suppressed. But she possesses the talent to channel these feelings into highly creative and artistic form. Art and self-expression are her outlets.

She needs discipline to make full use of her abilities. Too often, she may scatter her energies in many directions, beginning projects that are never finished and never really succeeding in anything. Her success depends on her ability to commit to her work and to see it through to completion. She has so much creativity and inspiring upward energy that she is in desperate need of an anchor. Hard work and discipline serve this purpose and bring out the best in her.

Because she is gifted with such a sparkling personality, she is tempted to stay on the surface and play with life. She is confident and loves the attention others give her, but these characteristics can lead to vanity and self-absorption.

She has the potential to live a very full and successful life thanks to her talent for artistic self-expression. The key to her success is a balance between the creative forces and self-discipline.

HER PERSONALITY IS AN 8

She appears strong and powerful. She has an impressive personality and can influence and even intimidate through sheer force. She has natural authority. Her competence and enthusiasm attracts people with resources. She radiates confidence. People defer to her because they sense her sureness and effectiveness. She also exudes a kind of controlled benevolence. People sense that she is generous once she is convinced of the worthiness of the cause.

It is important for her to dress well. She radiates a kind of raw power and able-ness, which needs to be refined and enhanced by her clothing. She may even dress a bit flashy, but that will not harm her. Quality is among her highest priorities, and this should reflect in her clothing. Although most eights have a strong constitution, they can be prone to indigestion, ulcers, and heart disease due to their reckless eating and drinking habits and their propensity to be workaholics.

Her Achilles heel is her capacity for an egocentric attitude. The negative side of her personality can cause her to be ruthless, greedy, and intensely lonely. Conversely, she can be spontaneous and excited. She is essentially warm and jovial. In her heart of hearts, she wants everyone to be as excited and as happy as her. Those who are around her often sense this. Her coworkers and employees usually like her.