~second~ and ~first~, yours is a lovely combination. ~first~'s 6 (by nature the most harmonious of all numbers) reflects a great capacity for love, understanding, sacrifice and support - with ~second~ as the beneficiary. And ~second~'s strong, dynamic 1 gives them the desire to protect and defend ~first~ through thick and thin, making ~first~ feel safe and secure. This is a combination that can last for a long time without the turbulence so many relationships experience. But, as always, there is another side to the coin. 

This aspect of ~second~'s chart reveals an inner determination and a driven energy that does not slow down for anything. ~second~ does not look kindly on weakness and can be demanding of others. Like a true leader, they expect courage and strength from those around them. ~first~ reveals a different nature (at least in this area of the chart). ~first~ is compromising, forgiving, and sometimes sacrificing to a fault. ~second~ must be careful not to see this as a weakness. 

Likewise, ~first~ may at times be disturbed by the somewhat gruff and unforgiving quality ~second~ can display. ~first~ should not confuse this with a lack of compassion. ~second~ is quite capable of feeling empathy, especially toward victims of circumstance where negligence, laziness, or cowardice are not the cause. ~second~ is only likely to respond harshly when they feel someone is not pulling their own weight. 

The important thing for both of you to recognize is that you sometimes differ in your opinions about what the most valuable human qualities are. Your priorities differ - no harm no foul. If you can respect this contrast and value one another's positive qualities, your relationship has the potential to be happy and long lasting. 