Many of your forebears had their feet firmly planted in reality. They tended to be grounded and careful, and more often than not managed to stay out of the line of fire, often without compromising their beliefs. In general, they were a sturdy lot, strong and brave, and yet they probably chose farming over soldiering. The strength that carried them through many generations was founded in a powerful sense of belonging. An underlying feeling that "all is right with the world," is reflected in the kind of self-confidence that cannot be taught. This confidence likely inspired others to confide in them and trust their advice. 